Thursday 16 October 2014

The truth about bloggers...

I've had a bit of a lull in blogging of late.  There's no good explanation why. I'm certainly not going to put it down to lack of time because everyone suffers from that.  You just have to make time for the things that matter. But although blogging does matter to me, I simply haven't made the time.

Normally, I'm fairly disciplined about it.  As regular readers may have noticed (there are a few of you loyal souls out there aren't there?!), I tend to post about once a week - and I usually enjoy the process.

I say usually because I was thinking about my perception of blogging and bloggers before I started writing online myself.

For a number of reasons I thought blogging would never be for me.  In no particular order, these included:

1. Bloggers have to be brilliant writers.

2. Bloggers have to be an expert on something.

3. Bloggers have to be opinionated or - yikes - controversial.

4. Directly related to 3. above... bloggers are super-confident, strong personalities.

Well guess what? I'm none of the above (hence the blog title). Truth to be told, my little blog would never truly have seen the light of day were it not for a good friend who 'outed' me.  I'd just been quietly writing away in my own little corner of cyberspace when she decided to share the page with - gasp - other people who might read it.

After that, there was nothing really left to lose. I finished off the job myself by setting up the little Facebook page where I share these posts.  I even remember to tweet from time to time too. I'll soon have been blogging for a year and I therefore now feel ready to confess to some home truths about bloggers (well, about this particular one):

1. Bloggers frequently spot typos after they have pressed 'publish' and have to go back to correct them.  (In my case usually after everyone who was going to read the post already has anyway.)

2. Bloggers regularly feel faintly ill after pressing said 'publish' button, in case the world thinks that their post is really stupid.

3. Bloggers are terrified that they are opening themselves up to nasty comments or criticism.

4. Bloggers often fall off the blogging wagon.  But - with a bit of luck (and self discipline) - they get back on again.

After all, we do it because we love it too.  Albeit in a masochistic sort of way.

I promise not to leave it so long the next time. Bear with me, won't you?

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  1. And the number one rule about blogging is not to apologise for not blogging��.
    Well done to you my lovely friend.xxxx

  2. I love this post...I'm always amazed when someone outside my family says they read my blog! You're right, sometimes the posts are not as frequent but we always seem to get back to it when the time is right...hats off to people who blog full time!

  3. Love this, so true! I get embarrassed sometimes when people say they've read my blog, which is so daft as surely that's the point? Great post :) #pocolo

  4. I think we all go through this and worry when we press publish, I'm still worrying 6 yearas after I started blogging! lol Mich x #PoCoLo

  5. I am so with you on all of this! At Grace's old school I hadn't realised who read the posts until people would pass comment every so often. You really never know who is reading! Thank you for linking to PoCoLo :) x

  6. Fun to read. I am one of those souls who reads you! Agree to the last 4 list! SO true and I am glad that I am not the only one who thinks so =P #pocolo

  7. I think the worrying changes over the years, but there's always something you worry about when blogging. Mostly because you want to come across well, and for people to understand where you're coming from.

  8. Haha! Feeling faintly ill after pushing publish - that's for the majority of the posts... photos & recipes safe bets! ;-)